Common Myths About Child Support and Custody in Arizona
When parents go through a separation or divorce in Arizona, issues related to child custody and child support are often the most emotionally charged. Unfortunately, a number of misconceptions can create confusion and unnecessary stress during an already difficult time.
This guide addresses some of the most common myths about custody and support laws in Kingman, Lake Havasu City, and the wider Mohave County area—so you can move forward with clarity and confidence.
Myth 1: Mothers Always Get Full Custody
Reality: Arizona law does not favor one parent over another based on gender. Courts focus on the child’s best interests when determining custody arrangements. This means either parent—or both—can be awarded legal decision-making authority and parenting time.
Shared custody is common when both parents are able and willing to be involved in the child’s upbringing.
Myth 2: Child Support Is Optional if Both Parents Share Custody
Reality: Even in joint custody situations, child support may still be required. Arizona’s support guidelines take into account each parent’s income, parenting time, and the child’s specific needs.
Support payments help ensure that both homes are able to provide for the child’s well-being—not just the one where the child spends more time.
Myth 3: Support Payments Can Be Withheld If Parenting Time Is Denied
Reality: Child support and parenting time are two separate legal matters. If one parent is not following the custody order, the other must go through the courts for enforcement—not withhold support in retaliation.
Doing so could lead to legal consequences, including contempt of court charges.
Myth 4: Verbal Agreements Are Enough to Modify Support or Custody
Reality: Verbal changes to support or custody are not legally binding. All modifications must be approved by the court. Even if both parents agree informally, failing to document the change officially can lead to misunderstandings and legal issues down the line.
If your circumstances have changed, consider filing a formal modification request with the court.
Myth 5: Teens Can Choose Which Parent They Live With
Reality: A child’s wishes may be considered—especially for older teens—but the final decision lies with the court. Arizona judges look at multiple factors, including each parent’s ability to provide a stable environment, the child’s relationship with each parent, and the overall family dynamic.
There’s no specific age where a child can legally choose where to live in Arizona.
Navigating Custody and Support With Confidence
Dealing with custody and support can be complex and emotionally taxing. Whether you’re going through a divorce or modifying an existing agreement, it’s important to have accurate information and access to support.
To better understand how Arizona’s family laws may apply to your situation, visit our Family Law Services page.
If you need guidance tailored to your unique circumstances, we invite you to reach out through our Contact Us page. Our team supports clients across Kingman, Lake Havasu City, and throughout Mohave County with clarity and professionalism.
